Across the entire Internet, it seems that women all over the world are talking about a phenomenon called the dick pic. A dick pic is a message that is sent over social media or text message (generally, but not always), to a woman, of a guy’s junk.

That’s right, some men have gotten it into their heads that sending pictures of their cocks to other people without asking first is somehow acceptable. It’s not, and while some women like it when men send them pictures of their erections, consent should be an integral part of the process. Ask first, send later. If they say no, they don’t want it, then don’t send the pic. Simple?

In some ways, phone sex masturbation chat has a dick pic equivalent. Describing your large member can be a big turn on, but not everyone wants the focus to be on just that.

Making sure there are plenty of other activities, touching, scratching, kissing, penetration, and more, are great ways to mix things up. Just like pictures and messages, some people enjoy intricate descriptions of turned on penises more than others.

It is always a fantastic idea to talk to the people you meet in this phone sex community. Some of them are more than happy to help you get rock hard and hear about it. Some of them imagine being penetrated in the pussy or the ass and touch themselves to the thoughts. It is still smart to be tactful, however.

In addition to free phone chat numbers that are heavily reliant upon descriptions of a cock, there are other topics which are more taboo and should be eased into and communicated beforehand.

Asking permission is an excellent idea before going into some of the more taboo fantasy role-play scenes out there — same thing with sexual chat involving choking and other BDSM staples. It is possible that the other person has had experiences that will make these things major turnoffs.

If there is any doubt in your mind, and even when there is not, when using adult phone sex services, it is always okay, and recommended, to ask permission before delving into a new or more sensitive topic.